These 3 Results Happen When You Stop Desperately Chasing a Love Interest
Usually, I give it to you straight, but I will start with some sympathy.I know what it feels like to meet someone new and become infatuated by the idea of pursuing a relationship with them.It can take up space in your mind; it makes sense because we all want to find love.Now, back to regular programming.That sense of infatuation can turn into a minor obsession if you do not have a clear view of healthy pursuit.We get trapped in movies where seeing someone go to every length for the person they love shows us an example of undaunting effort.Aw, cute. Not really.That is not how human nature works. You might think it comes off as sweet and sincere, but it can come off as desperate.When you stop chasing, you get the result you thought you would get from actively over-pursuing someone you are interested in building a dynamic with.That might sound counterintuitive, but I will break it down and explain how you will get what you want by taking a step back. You wake up in the morning, and you want some water. You go to your fridge filter or your sink and fill a glass. In your mind, you can go to that source and have no doubts that you can turn it on and get water. What if you went to the source the next day and no water came out? It would send you a slight worry, and you would ensure you value getting water from the outlet moving forward.The first example is a metaphor for someone who chases, and the second is for someone who is not readily available and is a guarantee.
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